Everyone dreams of meeting that perfect partner, the girl of their dreams. And while some of you might be incredibly lucky to just bump into her on your way to a coffee shop or at work and just naturally strike up a conversation, others might find this to be a challenging quest that after a while starts to feel impossible. Either way, there are certain steps that each of us can take to attract the girl of our dreams. 

1. Values

First things first, you have to define what makes that girl perfect. Instead of just thinking you’ll know the moment you meet her – try to visualize exactly what it is that you want from the person. What are they like? What are the traits you’d like them to have? What are your priorities in life and which ones are absolutely necessary for them to share with you and which would just be nice but not critical? 

Think about the core values and what qualities are important to you. Think whether religion or desire to have children matter to you and in turn should they matter to them. Consider how important it is for them to have similar interests. Do you absolutely need them to be outgoing and go camping with you or are you ok if they’re more of a homebody and play games with you on the couch? Consider even such vain things as appearance, is it something that’s even important to you at all? 

2. Flaws

Few people consider flaws when thinking of their perfect girl, but it’s actually pretty important. Perhaps even more so than the positive traits. Think about it, many of us can deal with a person not being into our hobbies, but once something annoys us, we can’t unsee it. 

For example, a person can love the same bands and books but then you find out that they are very messy and their home is a wreck at all times. Or they chew really loudly. Would you want to live with them? In many ways, the key to finding the perfect girl is figuring out exactly what are the things you can’t stand and staying away from those. But at the same time consider what minor flaws you can easily live with. Perhaps being into gaming isn’t a deal breaker for you?